I've only seen Utena and Maria-sama, both of which were kinda..not that much yuri to begin with...if you find any others out I'd like to know too D:!

I know that con te partiro song! It's a really nice song, I understand why you'd want to hear it b4 you die :3. As for me maybe something by the red hot chilli peppers 'cuz I love them..but I'm not really sure..its kind of a hard decision to make oO